"One of America’s truly distinguished Philosophers, Josiah Royce, wrote:
Loyalty is for the loyal man not only a good, but for him the chief aongst all the moral goods of his life, because it furnishes... him a personal solution [to] the hardest of [all] human...problems, the problem: "For what do I live? [The Philosophy of Loyalty (New York: Macmillan Co., 1908, p. 57}
It is loyalty—loyalty to true principles and true people and honorable institutions and worthy ideals—that unifies our purpose in life and defines our morality. Where we have no such loyalties or convictions, no standards against which to measure our acts and their consequences, we are anchored and adrift, “driven with the wind and tossed,” says the scripture (James 1:6) until some other storm or problem or appetite takes us another direction for an equally short and unstable period of time. The older I get—which isn’t old enough yet—the more I believe Professor Royce must have been right. “For what do I live?” is, in a sense, the inquiry every LDS missionary invites his or her investigator to make. If there is honest consideration of that question, then eternal truth has a fighting chance to bless the children of God.
What I wish to ask of you today is to be the kind of person who stands loyally by the principles and people and institutions to which you have declared allegiance, and that probably have given you most of the blessings you enjoy…
How much pressure is too much pressure to remain true? How much disappointment is too much disappointment to stand firm? How far is too far to walk with a discouraged friend, or a struggling spouse, or a troubled child? When the opposition heats up and the going gets tough, how much of what we thought was important to us will we defend and how much, in that inevitable tug and pull of life, will we find it convenient to give away?
As with so many abstractions that need to be made concrete, our homes and families are very good settings for an initial application. Would we, for example, stand by a younger brother or an older sister in times of despair or pain? Would we defend to the death our parents if they really needed our help? Even if our prayers are embarrassingly skimpy, don’t we at least pray for the members of our family? I assume that those questions are easy to answer, because we say something like:
"Well, I love them," or "I owe it to them," or "They would do the same thing for me." Yet what we so often fail to remember is that we should feel taht way about everyone that "family" is the true Christian appellation for the entire human race. Have we made the Sunday greeting of "Brother Jones and Sister Brown" too common to remember why we say it? Has our hasty reference to "Father in Heaven" grown stal and insignificant? Will we ever widen our circle of influence beyond that already claimed by the Pharisees, who ever in their benighted state did not boo other Pharisees? "What reward has ye?... And if ye salute your brethren only, what do you more than others? do not even the publicans so?" (Matthew 5:46-47). in matters of loyalty we all have a long way yet to go." Oh, Lord, Keep My Rudder True JEFFREY R. HOLLAND 21 January 1986
I invite you to examine your very soul, to look deeply within your habits and inclinations and measure your loyalties against the divine standard of our Savior, Jesus Christ. How prepared are you for the difficult things you may yet face in acquiring an education or serving a mission or raising a family or defending your beliefs? For what do you live? Are you true to your beliefs and convictions?